8 minutes | Thursday, November 4, 2021
Does Unconditional Love Exist?
(Ask Your Dating Expert Suzie at www.SingleDatingDiva.com)
§ Each and every person seeks relationship with those who will love us completely, with all our flaws, all our bad moods and especially when we’re not so lovable. Someone who will selflessly love us … essentially we’re looking for unconditional love, but, is that even realistic?
§ However, expecting “unconditional love”, is, well, unrealistic because it’s expecting a lot from others.
§ Love goes both ways. We need respect, understanding and nurturing.
§ Instead of always expecting unconditional love, we can contribute to the growth of a relationship by communicating and working together.
§ Realistic, mature, love is love that is mutually beneficial and built on solid ground of respect, nurturing and understanding.
§ Love SHOULD be conditional on those three things. No one should have put up with any negative behavior, abuse or neglect from a partner.
§ Instead of looking for the perfect partner you should work of BEING the perfect partner. The rest will fall into place where and when it’s right.
POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I will have realistic expectations of love