9 minutes | Thursday, October 7, 2021
How can I be a better flirt?
(Ask Your Dating Expert Suzie)
www.SingleDatingDiva.com
Men and women flirt differently. Women tend to be more subtle, batting eyelashes, playing with hair. Men are more likely to make bold gestures (on the most part).
• While some prefer the passive or cautious approach, I want to encourage singles to take an active approach to flirting and be better flirts showing someone that they are actually interested.
• You never know unless you try! Don’t worry about rejection, it sucks and maybe a blow to the ego but remember they don’t really know you. They are rejecting your advance, not you personally.
• So how to flirt, well the most important aspect about flirting, really, is the intention behind it.
• If you like someone, use their name when communicating with them, compliment them (clean compliments), ask about them and their interests, perhaps touching lightly unless they say no or pull back, standing closer than normal and of course smiling. Remember if they do not want you in their space respect that. Use their body language as their guide.
• Some top tips that work for my clients are:
1. Know your end goal before approaching someone and go for it if you get the right vibe from them.
2. Look good, smell good and be confident (not arrogant or cocky).
3. Smile a lot, stand up straight and have open body language.
4. Make the person of interest feel like they’re the only one in the room, make them feel special, important.
5. Respect boundaries and consent. Don’t be pushy.
• Flirting takes practice but it’s about just going out there and trying. You don’t know unless you try, right? RIGHT!
• POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I will take dating chances