6 minutes | Tuesday, October 19, 2021
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The most challenging part about dating is actually getting that date!
• There’s a lot of competition and not as much selection as we would hope. That’s why we tend to grab the low hanging fruit BUT the low hanging fruit isn’t always the best fruit, really you need to aim higher.
• There are some things you do to ensure you get quality and not necessarily quantity:
- know your worth and be mentally/emotionally prepared for a real relationship
- attract a quality partner by BEING a quality partner, be who you want to date
- get out of your comfort zone, outside your normal is usually where the good stuff is (besides what you’re already doing isn’t working)
- create dating opportunities for yourself by participating in activities, ask your social circle to introduce you to someone, talk to strangers in public (safely)
- be an active dater, love isn’t going to knock on your door
- just ask! If you meet someone you like and there’s a connection, ask them to continue the conversation over coffee, a drink or wherever, even better if you’re talking about something (a type of food or movie) use that as the catalyst to ask them to do whatever it is.
• Whatever you do, don’t settle for less than your worth but it’s up to you what you accept or don’t. You accept a play boy/girl then that’s what you’ll get. You accept someone who makes excuses all the time then that’s what you’ll get.
• You are worthy of quality love, so know your worth and date at that level.
• POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I am worthy of quality love