7 minutes | Thursday, August 12, 2021
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§ People SAY they want to be in a commitment BUT at the first chance they get to run they do. What is it about the word "commitment" or "relationship" that has people running for the hills?
§ Commitment fears are the hallmark of every whirlwind romance and bench marked by emotional unavailability. It's all great while the fireworks are going off, but, when reality hits they go running for the hills.
§ Someone who is commitment phobic doesn't easily form attachments, so buyer beware! If you're dating someone who seems commitment phobic, don't be too pushy with them but pay attention to the red flags.
§ Their inherent desire to get attention and be wanted overwhelms their judgment and their logic and they either knowingly or unknowingly leave a trail of broken hearts in their wake. It's important for you to recognize the patterns and avoid them unless you're just in it for the fun as well.
§ They don't keep promises? They are hard to pin down? They are last minute daters? You seem perpetually in the "friend zone" or even worse the "friends with benefits" zone? They don't share intimate details about their private life? No long term relationships in their past? Then, my friend, you might just have a commitment-phobe on your hands.
§ If red flags are raising then YOU should be running in the other direction. Don't waste your time, emotions and heart on this. You can't save them and they won't change just for your amazingly wonderful self.
Sorry to burst your bubble, you aren't the exception to the rule. If someone tells you they aren't looking for a relationship BELIEVE THEM.