7 minutes | Tuesday, August 31, 2021
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Today:
§ If you are always ending up in the friend zone, then there’s something about the vibe you’re giving out that puts you there.
§ For some reason, you’re not inspiring butterflies in someone and you’re making the “friend” part too easy.
You need to:
1) Be Clear About Intentions and Expectations: Being clear about your intentions and expectations ensures that everything is out in the open and that you are on the same page as each other. If you’re not, then move on and don’t waste your time trying to change their mind. If someone wants to be with you they will be.
2) Play It Cool: Desperation and neediness are NOT attractive. Don’t be too clingy with someone you’re dating. Give them their space and make sure you have yours. Don’t play hard to get but BE hard to forget.
3) Set Clear Boundaries: Make sure that you set clear boundaries of what a friend is and isn’t to you. If they talk to you like they do their friend then they don’t see you romantically, especially if they tell you about other people they’re dating or complain about other dates.
4) Don’t Be Their Friend: While you want to have a friendship with your partner, you need to be careful to not be their friend rather than their partner.
5) Be Aware of Chemistry: You need to be aware of what sort of romantic chemistry you have together. If they don’t want to kiss you or eventually be intimate then that’s definitely a sign that they don’t see you THAT way. In that case, it’s time to re-evaluate.