10 minutes | Tuesday, September 21, 2021
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§ So many people are in these complicated situations where they are the other women or man, they are fully aware and still continue (note that I’m speaking about secret relationships, not open ones)
§ Sometimes they are not even in a relationship but they still keep you secret but either way secret relationships ARE NOT romantic, neither is forbidden love, we are not 12.
§ While you can’t always help who you fall in love with, you can help what you do about it
§ Everyone has their different reasons, it could be ego, it could be love, it could be low self-esteem, or maybe they are everything you ever wanted, your soulmate even but does that make it right?
§ If you aren’t sure if you’re a secret, then ask yourself if they treat you like someone special in their life PUBLICLY then you might just be their "dirty little secret", sorry to say. You already knew that did not you.
§ You deserve better than to be someone's "dirty little secret" or sidepiece. Someone should be proud to be with you.
§ While it is not easy, at some point you have to let go and be true to yourself. Have some self-respect.
POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I deserve to be in a REAL public relationship